How much more grievous are the consequences of anger
than the causes of it.–Marcus Aurelius
When we are
angry, we very seldom think of how our aggression will
affect others. In many instances anger is one of the
most selfish emotions. It is not until our rage has
subsided that we become a witness of the carnage we have
caused.
Palmdale, California is a rural city about one hour
outside of Los Angeles. Ten years ago it would have been
considered a barren desert community; but now new
houses, malls and parks can be seen popping up all over
the area. Many of Palmdale’s new residents have exited
Los Angeles to escape increasing housing prices and
violent crime.
An unfortunate trait of the human condition is that
wherever we are, we bring ourselves with us. To escape
the torment of sin and death is to escape life itself.
This is the current reality for the parents of Jeremy
Rourke, a 15- year old little leaguer.
April marks the beginning of spring, new life and the
opening of baseball season. But April 12, 2005 also
marked the end of a young life. On that Tuesday
afternoon, a blow to the head with a baseball bat killed
Jeremy Rourke. As the tragic story unfolded it was
discovered that Jeremy’s assailant, Greg Harris was a
13-year-old little leaguer from another team. Greg who
was a pitcher testified during the trial that Jeremy
pushed him and used a racial slur. In anger and/or fear,
he struck Jeremy in the knee and then in the head.
During the three-day hearing witnesses described the
victim as a bully, having a history of violent outbursts
himself. Nevertheless, Greg Harris, the defendant was
convicted of 2nd degree murder and is currently serving
a 12- year prison sentence.
In retrospect a parent who witnessed the murder
stated, “He just didn’t realize it, It just happened
before you know it, and then, like I say, I told him,
What did you do, why did you do that?’” “I could see it
in his eyes that is was starting to sink in ‘Oh my gosh,
what did I do?”
Anger blinds us to the truth and damns the stream of
consciousness. What damage have you unconsciously caused
due to your anger? Have you ruined any lives or
destroyed any dreams because of your angry words or
actions?
Shannon Munford
Daybreak Counseling Service
www.daybreakservices.com
