Many people, in an effort to be “nice” or to avoid confrontation, allow others to call the shots. They give their power away by allowing others to exert their will over them and end up controlled by the expectations and decisions of another.
Archive: June 2010
Since “stress” is a compelling trigger for anger, it is important for you to be able to identify your own personal “stressors”. Then – find an activity or enterprise that can lower your stress level. Anger Management classes offer excellent information and tools to discover what stresses you out and what you can do about it.
A man of Iranian decent was was arraigned in a Santa Ana court on Thursday. He is accused of attacking two Latino men. He is being prosecuted for a hate crime. The California Penal code suggests some perpetrators of hate crimes be ordered to enroll in anger management classes or racial tolerance classes.
The fact of the matter is you are the change you seek. You can not control other people. You can not control them through intimidation, through coercion or through manipulation. If you are honest with yourself you know its hard enough contolling yourself.